Hello those who read my blog!
Today's topic is marriage.
It just so happened that many of my friends, guys and girls of my age
already thinking about marriage. Seriously,I often hear things like
about "how it would be cool to have a baby now" or "I want to have a
little baby". And I heard it from a friend that day and night walks in
the bars and really can't take care of herself. Or, for example, I
often hear how my male friends say they are going to marry, and how
cool would be married. Well, please don't think that I am totally
against marriages, I just against marriages of those whose mind is not
enough adult for such serious step. If to be honest with myself,
marriage is not about love,it is about agreement between two people to
share one life and have similar ideas. Therefore, it is not wise to
marry in a young age. Just think,when you are 20 or even 25 how can you
understand who is the right person for you? who is the person who
really has the same point of view on life and the same priorities?For example I am 20 years old and I don't know who has the same ideas and plans? Because I don't know my own plans yet. I mean that I'm too young to know myself and to assess myself objectivly. So I think it is better to spend your early years for understanding of yourself than to regret in future that emotions and the immaturity gained the upper hand over you. Moreover, I think, it is much wiser to spend your youth to becoming a full-fledged personality and to know exactly what type of person is right for you, suits you.
Marriage is not just love in law, it has consequences, such as children. And before to decide get marry, ask yourself, how can you manage with responsibility for a child, if you are still a child in your mind.
